Doom & Bloom Of Relationships

Relationships, like seasons, oscillate between bloom and doom, reflecting the ebb and flow of human connection. At their bloom, relationships are gardens of shared growth, rooted in trust, watered by empathy, and illuminated by understanding. They embody the essence of interdependence—where individuals are neither diminished nor consumed but thrive together in mutual flourishing. In these moments, relationships are a sanctuary, offering meaning and a reflection of our highest ideals.

Yet, the seeds of bloom can also bear the fruits of doom. Relationships falter when nourished by ego, miscommunication, or neglect. The fragility of human bonds becomes evident as love turns to indifference, and connection to isolation. Doom emerges not as an abrupt end but as a slow erosion, a reminder of the impermanence inherent in all things.

Relationships go through stages of development. Without this continuous progress they become Boring in their nature and almost insufferable ultimately. What are these stages? I often describe them as the mutual growth with act of being vulnerable which increases over time. Personally i have never been a big fan or supporter of the relationship culture in general. But according to my observations i can say this with utmost confidence that if your relationship does not grow it will die it's own death very soon. And this ending though builds up over time but often come to surprise to most people.

The growth which is needed can never take place if vulnerability does not play any role. Both people involved have to evolve by being vulnerable with each other overtime, this process usually goes through many phases itself mostly starting from the talking phase to the occasional hang out phase to being comfortable.Then to the physical aspects of a relationship. If you are not comfortable with all these or not ready for the commitment to all this,you should think twice before going into a relationship. Because if you can't deliver in any of these areas your relationship Will End! And the one who doesn't realize why it happened so suffers the most and enters into state of denial and ultimately being incapable of moving on.

In this duality lies their truth: relationships mirror life’s paradox, where growth and decay coexist, inviting us to embrace their transient beauty.